You're Going To Be Great At This!

One of the most important life lessons I've shared with people is to know when to shut up. Seriously, people talk entirely too much. They want to share their opinions, political beliefs, recipes and personal drama because they either think that others want to hear this or that we need their valuable information.  This happens in sales also. There are sales people who give out all kinds of information about their product or service, from the features of the product to the long list of names of satisfied customers. But there comes a point in the sales process when you have to stop selling and close. And when you close you need to stop talking.  When it comes to closing, there's an old sales adage that says, "The one who talks first loses." For example, let's say you have been working on a customer for about twenty minutes. Now it's time to close and you go with something like, "So what do you think? Would you like to start filling out the paperwork?" (...

From the very first day I worked in sales I was taught that there were two subjects one should not discuss with prospects or clients - religion and politics. The reason is very easy to understand, in that almost already has "dug in" when it comes to these two topics and they aren't going to be changing their minds. People are committed to their churches or other places of worship. I can honestly say that I only know of one prospect who changed their religious affiliation, and that was because they were previously "uncommitted".  And when it comes to politics, it is more important now than ever to avoid the topic altogether. A quick glance at social media reveals that there are not many "undecideds" either. In the months leading up to the last election I saw people of varying political stripes making claims, true and false, about politicians and candidates. If they didn't like the information others posted they went after the messenger instead of fa...